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Jedin\u00e9 vr\u00e1sky … ","datePublished":"2020-02-02","dateModified":"2023-04-28","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.calliditas.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.calliditas.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/48db5b3634ed7a3f1f89bca90f0a2521b0bb3970d57e3653d258d10b0f31fdf3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/48db5b3634ed7a3f1f89bca90f0a2521b0bb3970d57e3653d258d10b0f31fdf3?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"calliditas.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.calliditas.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a310296_w16898_t1582560728.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.calliditas.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a310296_w16898_t1582560728.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.calliditas.sk\/problem-c-1-svokra\/","about":["\u017dena"],"wordCount":433,"articleBody":"V\u00e1\u0161 vz\u0165ah s\u00a0va\u0161im bud\u00facim man\u017eelom vych\u00e1dza perfektne. Rozumiete si, smejete sa spolu, m\u00e1te sa radi, s\u00a0l\u00e1skou sa tolerujete a\u00a0vych\u00e1dzate si v\u00a0\u00fastrety, rob\u00edte kompromisy. Jedin\u00e9 vr\u00e1sky na \u010dele v\u00e1m rob\u00ed va\u0161a svokra. \u017dena, ktor\u00e1 v\u00e1\u0161ho mil\u00e1\u010dika porodila a\u00a0s\u00a0l\u00e1skou vychovala. Pravda\u017ee jej patr\u00ed ve\u013ek\u00e1 v\u010faka, no kedy to u\u017e ale naozaj preh\u00e1\u0148a so svojou neskonalou starostlivos\u0165ou?Ke\u010f jednozna\u010dne netoleruje va\u0161e n\u00e1zory a\u00a0poklad\u00e1 svoje n\u00e1zory za tie spr\u00e1vnej\u0161ie, hoci vy ste sa rozhodli inak. Jednoducho podkop\u00e1va va\u0161u autoritu. Nielen va\u0161u, ale aj autoritu v\u00e1\u0161ho partnera. Proste zabudla na to, \u017ee jej syn\u00e1\u010dik u\u017e d\u00e1vno vyr\u00e1stol a\u00a0nie je mal\u00e9 die\u0165a, tak\u017ee nemus\u00ed za\u0148ho rozhodova\u0165. A\u00a0v\u00f4bec by ani nemala. Mala by tolerova\u0165 rozhodnutia dospel\u00e9ho \u010dloveka, ktor\u00fd si je zodpovedn\u00fd za svoj vlastn\u00fd \u017eivot s\u00e1m.M\u00e1m zop\u00e1r pr\u00edkladov, ktor\u00e9 mne samej robia vr\u00e1sky na \u010dele. So svojim partnerom som u\u017e sedem rokov a\u00a0za ten \u010das sa udialo zop\u00e1r pr\u00edhod pr\u00e1ve tak\u00e9hoto charakteru. Moja svokra nevie tolerova\u0165 na\u0161e rozhodnutia…Dali sme napr\u00edklad partnerovmu bratrancovi na svadbu sto eur do ob\u00e1lky. Boli sme s\u00edce svedkovia, ale ja som st\u00e1le \u0161tudovala a\u00a0ich svadba bola n\u00edzko n\u00e1kladov\u00e1, tak\u017ee mysl\u00edm, \u017ee menu na osobu nest\u00e1lo ani tridsa\u0165 eur a\u00a0aj navy\u0161e sme im nie\u010do dali. No, moja svokra im n\u00fakala peniaze za n\u00e1s na druh\u00fd de\u0148, \u017ee je to m\u00e1lo, \u017ee sme si to rozmysleli… bez n\u00e1\u0161ho vedomia!!! Samozrejme, oni si u\u017e penia\u017eky nezobrali, ale ch\u00e1pete to?No a\u00a0\u010fal\u0161\u00ed pr\u00edklad je z\u00a0teraj\u0161ej situ\u00e1cie, ke\u010f sme \u017eiadali o\u00a0byt a\u00a0mali sme navrhn\u00fa\u0165 o\u00a0k\u00fasok vy\u0161\u0161iu sumu, lebo je to formou dra\u017eby. P\u00e1n starosta povedal, \u017ee byt m\u00e1me takmer ist\u00fd, ale o\u00a0k\u00fasok vy\u0161\u0161iu cenu treba rad\u0161ej da\u0165. Tak sme prihodili asi 35 \u20ac a\u00a0zaokr\u00fahlili sumu. Partner poprosil svoju mamu, aby ob\u00e1lku zaniesla na obecn\u00fd \u00farad, ke\u010f\u017ee obidvaja sme v\u00a0robote po\u010das ich otv\u00e1rac\u00edch hod\u00edn. No a\u00a0ona, pros\u00edm pekne, prep\u00edsala sumu a\u00a0zv\u00fd\u0161ila ju len o\u00a01 \u20ac!!!!! Ide ma z\u00a0toho porazi\u0165, nepochop\u00edm to asi nikdy ako si jedna osoba dovo\u013euje takto zdegradova\u0165 na\u0161e rozhodnutie.. \u010co sa do toho v\u00f4bec star\u00e1?!                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.6\/5 - (12 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Probl\u00e9m \u010d. 1 \u2013 SVOKRA","item":"https:\/\/www.calliditas.sk\/problem-c-1-svokra\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]